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    Post by Lolz on Sat Sep 27, 2008 9:57 pm

    Discuss!!!
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    Post by Flikk on Mon Sep 29, 2008 6:40 am

    They can have the power to make you or break you.
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    Post by Chojin on Mon Sep 29, 2008 8:43 am

    Most of mine just break me. I should get a tatoo that says "Fragile".

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    Post by Fizzie on Fri Oct 10, 2008 10:58 pm

    Relationships are meant to make your life even better than it already is.

    If a relationship is making things bad/worse; get out of it.

    I think one of the key things in a relationship (apart from the obvious love, trust, honesty, etc) is being true to yourself.

    You should be with someone who you can be (and are) yourself around, and who can be (and is) theirself around you too.


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    Post by Nightwolf on Fri Oct 10, 2008 11:13 pm

    I was in one once. Me and her are still friends though. These days I don't feel like i'm not good enough for someone sometimes though.
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    Post by Fizzie on Fri Oct 10, 2008 11:20 pm

    NMD wrote:I was in one once. Me and her are still friends though. These days I don't feel like i'm not good enough for someone sometimes though.

    You are who you are. And I like to believe there's someone for everyone.

    At the end of the day, as long as you're yourself, and you treat people how you would like to be treated yourself, then that's all anyone can really ask or expect of you.


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    Post by Nightwolf on Fri Oct 10, 2008 11:24 pm

    I aggree that there's someone for everyone. Kitai knows about the dream I had when I met the dream woman. If she was real, i'd love to meet her. For those who are bit confused, check out my LJ to see what I mean.

    http://sirnmd.livejournal.com/
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    Post by Fizzie on Fri Oct 10, 2008 11:34 pm

    I don't do the whole "looking for love" thing. I think love has a way of finding you when you least expect it.

    It'd be nice to be with someone, but at the same time, I'm totally fine on my own.

    I'm living for fun, and having fun living!!

    'sides, I've not met a guy yet who can handle me!! =3


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    Post by Nightwolf on Fri Oct 10, 2008 11:42 pm

    Kitai wrote:I don't do the whole "looking for love" thing. I think love has a way of finding you when you least expect it.

    It'd be nice to be with someone, but at the same time, I'm totally fine on my own.

    I'm living for fun, and having fun living!!

    'sides, I've not met a guy yet who can handle me!! =3

    Your ninja skills are amazing so you could kick his ass if he annoys you!
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    Post by Lolz on Sat Oct 11, 2008 5:30 am

    No one can tame our Ki-Ki!!! tongue

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    Post by Lexi on Tue Mar 10, 2009 4:14 pm

    Are you in a relationship?

    Would you be in a long distance relationship?

    I've been with my boyfriend for just under a year now and I met him online, I wouldn't of changed it for the world because we got to know each other in a totally different way to what we would of done offline.

    Fact of the matter is If it wasn't for being online then I don't think we would of ever of met. We are totally different, As they say.. opposites attract Wink

    It's a long distance relationship, I see him most weekends which is good enough atm, I'm moving soon to go live with him for a fresh start and I cant wait Very Happy
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    Post by Fizzie on Sun Feb 12, 2012 12:37 pm

    Lexi wrote:Are you in a relationship?

    Yes. =)

    Lexi wrote:Would you be in a long distance relationship?

    And again, yes. But the longer the distance, the harder it can be. It's always "easier" to start with, but the closer you get to someone, and the more you feel for them; the more you miss them.

    There also comes a time when you have to really sit down and think about if either of you would be prepared to move for the other in the future, because if neither of you are up for it, then you might as well end it before you get yourselves hurt.

    I currently live with Kaze. He asked me to move in with him during his time in Cambridge. Though, originally, we were going to wait until he moved back to Bristol and find a place together. But, like I said, the more you feel for someone, the more you miss them. We wanted to be together, and he asked me to move. So I did.

    We're now in Bristol, in our first proper place together (we house shared in Cambridge). ^_^


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    Post by Chojin on Sun Feb 12, 2012 1:31 pm

    Lexi wrote:Are you in a relationship?

    No

    Lexi wrote:Would you be in a long distance relationship?

    Never again... at least not if I can help it. The last one didn't go so well. In fact, none of them have, else I'd still be in a relationship. But the last one definitely did a number on me. Unfortunately, I seem to have more luck with long distance, lol.

    It might be worth noting that Lexi's relationship failed because one or both of them was unfaithful. This isn't a dig at whoever was unfaithful, but rather a point about the temptations that are always present, but harder to ignore if you're not close (physically) to your partner.

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    Post by Fizzie on Mon Feb 13, 2012 8:11 am

    Chojin wrote:the temptations that are always present, but harder to ignore if you're not close (physically) to your partner.

    I don't think that's true at all. If you love someone, then there is no temptation. No matter how near or far apart you are.


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    Post by Chojin on Mon Feb 13, 2012 9:23 am

    I didn't say the temptations are always noticable. They may appear as thoughts so brief they don't register, or even subconsciously. I'm not 100% on how it would work, just my thoughts on the subject, lol

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    Post by Fizzie on Mon Feb 13, 2012 9:27 am

    Chojin wrote:I didn't say the temptations are always noticable. They may appear as thoughts so brief they don't register, or even subconsciously. I'm not 100% on how it would work, just my thoughts on the subject, lol

    I've never had any temptation at all.


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    Post by Chojin on Mon Feb 13, 2012 9:47 am

    I'm sure you haven't. Not everyone will be tempted, that is a certainty. But then, you have higher morals than most people I know. I think the only person with better morals is the guy in the Credit Expert advert, lol

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    Post by Chojin on Sun Mar 18, 2012 1:30 am

    I take back what I said about temptations. I am in a long distance reltionship (I know I said neve again but it just happened) and I have no desire or temptation to cheat. That won't change, either.

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    Post by Fizzie on Thu Jan 17, 2013 7:28 am

    All the single ladies~


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    Post by Chojin on Fri Jan 18, 2013 1:02 am

    I had a failed attempt at a relationship at the beginning of December. The strange thing is, I didn't even attempt to start one. Long story, but it caused me problems.

    I came into this year not wanting a relationship, but someone has interested me. We were talking about relationships and dating and I threw in a half joke about taking her out. She agreed but didn't realise I was thinking about doing it. She has confidence and trust issues but never actually said no. So you never know...

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    Post by andrewlincoln318 on Fri Dec 20, 2013 5:01 pm

    if you give a time always their are temptations, like if you already married then you always entertain opposite sex, times come you will develop each other, to avoid that don't be so much confident, you must have a limitation.

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