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Chojin wrote:I'm completely stunned

Sup?

I'm kindas tired... and I think still a little bit "under the influence". XD

I'll talk to you on MSN later, Kia. I desperately need to sort my head out, at the minute >_<

Bleh... I'm so tired... but I gotta clean this place up ready for when the guys come over tomorrow... but I guess that can be done later tonight or something. I think I'll go back to bed for now.

I have had a small success within the house. Usually, it's hard to communicate with mum for a number of reasons, which leads to so many arguments. We almost had an argument this morning over housework, but I said nothing so there couldn't be an argument. Instead, while mum was out, I wrote down my argument for the washing up, as well as hers, and I figured out a solution that satisfies both. When mum came back, I showed it to her and she was actually able to understand. I still had to explain the concept of writing it down, which is to focus on one problem we have at a time, rather than all the problems and getting confused which is where the arguments come in.

It's a process that seems to work, so I have asked mum to, at some point, write down another issue she has with housework, summarising her argument in 3-4 sentences. If there are any problems arising from it, then I will adapt the process as and when it's needed.

Chojin wrote:I have had a small success within the house. Usually, it's hard to communicate with mum for a number of reasons, which leads to so many arguments. We almost had an argument this morning over housework, but I said nothing so there couldn't be an argument. Instead, while mum was out, I wrote down my argument for the washing up, as well as hers, and I figured out a solution that satisfies both. When mum came back, I showed it to her and she was actually able to understand. I still had to explain the concept of writing it down, which is to focus on one problem we have at a time, rather than all the problems and getting confused which is where the arguments come in.

It's a process that seems to work, so I have asked mum to, at some point, write down another issue she has with housework, summarising her argument in 3-4 sentences. If there are any problems arising from it, then I will adapt the process as and when it's needed.

Mm, weird. I used to do that when I found trying to talk to people about things didn't work. I hate arguing, and it pisses me off when people won't listen. I also get kinda upset when people are shouting and stuff, and I sometimes find it hard to say things outloud, like, important, emtional things.

So I found it easier and more effective to write things down when I felt I had to. It seemed to work. I would just kinda explain my views, and explain why I couldn't actually say things at the time. It'd usually lead to a more calm and understanding discussion, and I could listen to their views too, without either of us feeling defensive and stuff.

And yeah... I'm awake again. XD

And you didn't suggest it before now? For shame, lol.

Chojin wrote:And you didn't suggest it before now? For shame, lol.

Sorry, I'd forgotten about it til you mentioned it. XD

Oh well, it's done now. Hopefully I can expect some major improvement over time.

Chojin wrote:Oh well, it's done now. Hopefully I can expect some major improvement over time.

Hope so. It's about time you caught a break!!

I'm so booored!!

Yeah it is. And right now, I'm not feeling too good >_<

I'm so sick of people trying to make it look like there's something wrong with me just because I have morals!!

I don't blame you, hun. It's neither you nor them that has something wrong, you just have different morals.

Chojin wrote:I don't blame you, hun. It's neither you nor them that has something wrong, you just have different morals.

They don't seem to have any morals.

At the end of the day, I know we're all different, and to be honest, I can't understand how people can live with such low morals, but whatever. I don't need them making me feel like I don't belong in this world just because I have morals and stand up for what I believe in.

I'm me. Deal with it.

I know it's confusing, but really they're only going to muck things up for themselves. I, too, am disgusted by the complete lack of morals displayed by some people, but then I laugh when I remember that there's no hope for them.

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On a different note, I'm seriously considering a TF G1 marathon.

Bored now. Just been tidying up abit before the guys come round. But I don't even know when or even if they're still coming round. We had it set for next week, but coz one of them couldn't make it, we changed it to today. Which is totally fine... or at least it would be if the person who started re-arranging the plans would at least let me know what's actually happening, seeing as it's meant to be happening at my house. =/

And then she asked me lastnight what was going on, and seemed kinda stressie that I didn't know coz she was the one changing it all, and no one had bothered to fill me in properly. Even when I asked two other people what was happening; they didn't seem to really know either.

So now I have no clue if we're having some drinking and gaming fun, or not.

weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee you always know uve had a good night when u can hardly think or speak hows everyone else?
omg my boss showed me this in todays herald http://www.eastbourneherald.co.uk/news/The-bank-has-been-robbed.5884382.jp read it i cudnt belive it!

Sparky Ninja wrote:weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee you always know uve had a good night when u can hardly think or speak hows everyone else?
omg my boss showed me this in todays herald http://www.eastbourneherald.co.uk/news/The-bank-has-been-robbed.5884382.jp read it i cudnt belive it!

Sh*t, dude!! That's Fox!! o_o

yup
told u it was worth reading XD i cudnt believe it, theres still no motivation behind it either?

hows everyones weekend been?

Sparky Ninja wrote:yup
told u it was worth reading XD i cudnt believe it, theres still no motivation behind it either?

I kept expecting it to be a joke. XD

And I can't believe just how stupidly easy it is to rob a bank. =/ I know he had the knife on him, but nobody actually saw it. So really, he robbed the bank with nothing more than a writen note.

Sparky Ninja wrote:hows everyones weekend been?

Pretty good, considering. I mean, you know alot of things have been upsetting me lately, and I've had a few cries, but it's still been a fun weekend of work. =)

(Y) glad your ok hun yeh friday was odd lol scared me a little but i knew ud come back *hugs*

Sparky Ninja wrote:(Y) glad your ok hun yeh friday was odd lol scared me a little but i knew ud come back *hugs*

Thanks, dude. I'm still upset abit, I guess. But I'll get through it all eventually. I prefer looking on the bright side, and looking at what I do have, rather than what I don't. ^^

Oh, read your post in The Angst thread. I'm on MSN if you wanna talk.

Also, I'm on MSN for anyone ready to sort out Air Gear RP as it starts tomorrow.

im back.......again lol

Species wrote:im back.......again lol

Yaaay!!

i am soo bored,